Memorial & Celebration of Life Ceremonies

Saying goodbye is never easy.

When someone we love dies, creating space to remember, honor, and celebrate their life can be an important part of the healing process.

For many LGBTQ+ individuals and families, that also means ensuring that a person's identity, relationships, and chosen family are recognized and honored authentically.

At 10 Thousand Lakes of Love, I create inclusive, personalized memorial and celebration of life ceremonies that reflect the unique life, story, and legacy of your loved one.

Whether you're planning a traditional gathering, a celebration of life, a scattering ceremony, or a small remembrance with chosen family, I will work with you to create a ceremony that feels meaningful, affirming, and true to the person being remembered.

What This Can Look Like

Every ceremony is thoughtfully crafted and may include:

* Personal storytelling and remembrance

* Readings, poems, music, or shared reflections

* Opportunities for family and friends to participate

* Recognition of spouses, partners, and chosen family

* Cultural, spiritual, secular, or nonreligious elements

* Memory-sharing rituals or symbolic acts

A tone that feels authentic to your loved one's life and personality

There is no one "right" way to honor a life.

Together, we'll create a ceremony that reflects what mattered most to them and to the people who loved them.

Support & Pricing

Pet Memorials - Starting at $200

Memorial Services - Starting at $500

Includes: Family consultation, Custom ceremony, & Speaker coordination

Celebration of Life Ceremonies - Starting at $600

Includes: Multiple family conversations, Gathering stories & memories, & Personalized tribute writing

Because every family and every loss is different, I encourage you to reach out so we can discuss your needs and create a ceremony that feels right for your situation.

A Compassionate, Inclusive Approach

My goal is to make this process as gentle and supportive as possible. I'll help guide you through the details, listen to the stories that matter, and create a ceremony that honors your loved one with dignity, authenticity, and care.

Reach Out When You're Ready

If you're looking for an affirming officiant to help create a memorial or celebration of life for a loved one, I would be honored to support you.

Together, we'll create a meaningful tribute to a life that deserves to be remembered.